Saturday, January 3, 2026

The Dragon Lady

Dear Aunt Kay,

I am a 45-year-old grocery store cashier/manager. My husband Michael is twelve years younger than me, and we met when he was working as a box and shelve boy at the same store. Being a store supervisor, I was often thought of as stern and demanding. I know that many of the staff would refer to me behind my back as the "dragon lady."

Michael seemed like very willing young man and would always volunteer to bag for me at the register. One thing lead to another and we started to have coffee together and share rides into work.

I made it clear from day one, that Michael would not be considered too old for discipline. He received his first bottom warming shortly after we were engaged and this has and will continue for the balance of what I hope will be a very long marriage.

Being younger than me, Michael can be very impatient and indifferent at times. He lacked the presence of a mother in his youth and at times I have to fill the requirement of both mom and wife. I am often mistaken as being his mother, since I suppose I do have the mature rounded demeanor of a parent.

Michael is kept on the demerit system, with a list of points allocated to inappropriate deeds. At 100 points, a full over the knee bare bottom spanking takes place. This also includes loss of privileges, such as having to leave the car in the garage for a week and being made to walk to work or missing his sports on the television. He acquires 5 points for items such as, being late for dinner, not cleaning up the shower after use, failing to place the toilet seat down etc. A hefty 25 points is obtained for being rude, impolite to either myself of friends. And so forth.

Each penalty point is paid out with one spank of the implement that I use. Michael can trade in demerit points at will for return of privileges. Last week he gave me 150 points so that he could attend a golf tournament that he would have missed. The next day his bottom was burning and he was in a great deal of discomfort sitting down.

I have a solid wooden armless chair that is perfect for a OTK spanking. Michael stands at my right side and is always red in the face as he prepares for what comes next. He lowers his pants and undershorts. I keep him like this for a few minutes, scolding him at length. I spread my legs slightly and just point to my lap. He then goes over my knee and places his palms on the carpet. His toes just touch the other side of the carpet and his bare bottom is openly displayed in front of me. I like to work each side of the buttock in turn, dispensing a distinct spank about every 10 - 15 seconds for the first dozen, speeding up to a faster 6- 9 seconds and ending the lesson with a BRISK one a second frequency.

I own a number of paddles and enjoy the Holy Terror style most. Michael is required to maintain the paddles and lemon oil and mink wax is always applied after use to maintain the smooth feel.

Thank you for offering a fine web page and for the support that you extend to wives all over the world.

from, Susan