Dear Aunt Kay:
Could I get your advice about your most advanced disciplinary technique?
I have learned that my husband has a roving eye. I consider this a total lack of respect! It is my intention to deliver a long, hard, and painful punishment. I intend to spank/paddle/strap him until he is welted, bruised, crying like a baby, and begging for mercy. I want to spank for as long as possible without drawing blood. I have no intention of being lenient with him. 200 sounds like a nice round number.
Could I get your advice regarding the number of swats with the different implements and some tips on body positioning (mine and his) for maximum effect? How often should I give him a break? Any other advice would be appreciated.
Thanks, Mona
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Dear Kay:
I wrote a few days back about my husband. I told you that I had noticed him admiring and flirting with some other women recently. I told him that we would be dealing with it after I had time to think about his punishment.
After consulting your new webpage about discipline methods, I took care of it this evening. I sent Bill into the bedroom, made him strip, and lay on the bed bottom up. I have one of those heavy hairbrushes that you recommend. I started spanking in sets of 4 and then 8 as you advise.
I kept this up until he was warmed up. This seemed quite effective. I was leaving quite an impression on my naughty husband's tender bottom.
Then, I started in with the non-stop paddling. I brought that brush down on him as hard as I could. Again and again and again, it was the sound of the hairbrush against bare flesh.
I had been moving the brush around all over his ass. But then, I started to deliver consecutive spanks to his left cheek. I laughed a bit when he started squirming around. He was trying to get me interested in his other side and get some relief off that left cheek. Those cheeks were real red and getting just a bit lumpy. He was moaning, groaning, and getting a little teary eyed.
I stopped briefly and gave him a talking to. I told him that I would decide where he was to be spanked. He started telling me that he would never do it again and how sorry he was, etc....
I told him that he was not as sorry as he was going to be! I really did not feel bad. I do anything and everything to turn him on. I told him how hurt and humiliated I felt.
I told him that other men may get away with this, but that he gets punished and he gets punished HARD!
I teased him a little about the condition his rear end was in, told him that he would take whatever I decided, and then told him that I wasn't even warmed up! The look on his face was priceless!
I added something about him enjoying his break and started in again. Right cheek, left cheek, upper thighs, lower cheeks, upper cheeks, I really unloaded. He had totally lost it. We were well into 3 figures and his bottom showed it. After a couple of swats to that sore left side, he reached his hand back for protection. I swatted his hand with the brush.
I demanded to know if he was just trying to make me angry. He was like, "Oh no honey. It's just that it hurts!" "It's supposed to hurt! You're being punished", I told him.
He told me that he could not take it anymore. I told him that he had just about finished the punishment for the flirting. However, he would get a couple dozen after that for resisting his punishment. I carried on despite all of his crying. After he had recovered, we talked. I told him it was for his own good and an expression of my love. I think he will be remembering for at least a week. I think I have dealt with this little problem. What do you think?
Mona
PS (day after) A point of interest: What a difference last night made. Today it's yes honey, no honey, yes ma’am, no ma’am. I wonder why? :)
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Dear Aunt Kay,
My wife, Mona, sent you an e-mail regarding a spanking I had received earlier in the week. I had been spanked for being a flirt with other women.
She had me write my feelings about this on paper. Now, she's having me send them to you.
First, allow me to say that the paddling was the most painful experience of my life! I couldn't believe it. I was a grown man crying like a child. I didn't think she was ever going to let up. She said the count was an even 200. Do you suggest that women spank that hard?
From this, I learned something important: I am loved. As I was being paddled, I realized how much she must have loved me. I mean I had done something that Mona felt needed correction, and she was dealing with it. Most men tend to treat their wives terribly. My wife is in a position where she simply will not tolerate it.
Afterwards, Mona asked me if I would ever want a more traditional marriage. I said no and I meant that. I am 26 and Mona is 24. I must admit that it is something special to know that I am under the rule of a disciplinary wife from now on who can rule me and discipline me in any way she chooses.
I asked Mona if any future spankings would be as hard. She said many would not be but that many would be harder. It just depends on my behavior and what kind of mood she's in. I promised that I would never do anything inconsiderate or defiant. I would obey her rules and orders to the letter. She was skeptical. She said that perfection was the only standard she would accept.
Mona's attitude during the paddling suprised me. It was not an attitude of a person carrying out their duty with regret. Emotionally, she was very tough. For example, she made a remark about loving those bruises and blisters on my cute little butt. She was asking “how does it feel” and “poor baby does it hurt?” I realized that she was the injured party. It was fine that she gained such pleasure from seeing me that way.
You really seemed to have released something in my wife! If you respond, PLEASE! Tell my wife that I wrote a good letter and seemed to be getting the hang of it.
Best Regards,
Bill