Hi Aunt Kay!
I just discovered your website and am really fascinated by it. My wife and I have dabbled in spanking, and things that are a bit kinkier, but have only just begun to use it seriously. I am a mostly submissive switch. I do enjoy giving my wife light, fun spankings as foreplay. She, on the other hand, is basically dominant, and really spanks hard, often with a wooden hairbrush that really hurts. Since she has been seriously disciplining me on a daily basis our relationship has improved tremendously. My daily spankings seem to give her a real boost, and they provide me with great stress relief, and (strangely enough) they are something they I look forward too. Last night was the longest, and hardest yet (she seems to really be settling into her role as disciplinarian), and was (for me) both the most unpleasant and simultaneously enjoyable such encounter that we've had.
Thanks so much for your website.
Best regards,
Matt