Hi Aunt Kay,
I have to say that thanks to your site, my soon to be wife and I are pratcing the lifestyle. We enjoy it so much, that I decided to share with you my first DWC Lifestyle spanking.
First, a little background. About 5 months ago, my fiance and I were having a discussion that ended in slight argument. I was somewhat serious, and told her to bend over my knee for a spanking. To my surprise, she did, and I gave her one. After I was finished, I felt really guilty about what I had done. It seemed to me that since we were getting married that we needed to be 100% equal, so I asked her if she would like to spank me. She agreed and ordered me to drop my pants and bend over her knee. I complied, and she delivered.
So now let’s fast forward to the present. Ever since that afternoon when she spanked me, I felt as though I needed her to show her assertiveness whenever she deemed necessary. So, I went surfing the web in search of information on wives/girlfriends spanking their man. It was a little scary to me to just come out and ask her to spank me without a little research first. I happened across your site and read as much as I could. That night, when my fiance came home, I sat her down and we discussed the issue. I even pulled your site up on the computer so that she could see it.
The next morning, she put her foot down for the first time bright and early. I am somewhat of a grouch in the morning and can say some nasty things when it is time to wake up. I usually ignore her when she wakes me and sleep for at least another half-hour past the alarm, till she is hollering that I will be late to work. That morning, she taught me a lesson about listening the first time. When I refused to get up, she pulled the covers off of me to expose my back side. She than gave me a series of swats till I tried to get up. "Now go and take your shower and get dressed" was the next thing out of her mouth. I did as she said and headed down stairs. When I got to the bottom of the stairs, I heard this deep, demanding voice coming from the kitchen. "Come in here right now," she said. When I entered, the next thing I heard was, "Take off your pants and bend over the counter."
I just looked at her in shock and she informed me, "Do it now, or the underpants come off too." I did as told and got a good 20 across the butt with her hand. When she was done, she lectured me. "Now, you know that if you don't get up when I say, you will be punished. For every time I have to say wake up, you will get 20 in your underpants. If you answer me back, you get 30 on the bare backside". I replied with a yes ma'am, and stood up looking for my pants. "What do you think you are doing? I am not done yet!" she said. "Now, I have done some thinking. I think that for all the times you have been mean to me, you need to be punished. Starting today, I am going to punish you every morning until I feel you have learned your lesson. When I think justice was served, you will get at minimum one spanking per week as a reminder. If you are a bad boy, you will get additional spankings during the week.”
At that time, I felt so guilty for all I have done to this poor woman who has done nothing but be there for me and support me. I agreed and she then proceeded with part two of my punishment. "Go upstairs and bring me the wide strap that you wear with your work clothes," she ordered. When I returned to the kitchen, she proceeded. "Take down your underpants and bend over my knee". SPANK, SPANK, SPANK. A good 25 or 30 she delivered to my bare back side. "Stand up and pull up your underpants. I think that this is a good start to your redemption. Just so you remember today, you will get 10 more on your bare back side with the wooden spoon". She delivered as promised, and I had a stinging experience for the rest of the day.
Thank you for having a site dedicated to this type of spanking. In the short time that we have started to adapt the lifestyle, we have become much closer. Our communication has improved. She feels satisfied from being able to give me what I deserve, and I am satisfied cause I get what I need. We are now in to the beginning of day 4 of my daily lesson. I have acted up once, and got a nice addition to my daily spanking. I was also instructed to use my wood working skills to make her 4 different size paddles. We are both looking forward to using the first one tomorrow.
I'll let you know what kind of impression it makes on me (lol).
J and M