Dear Aunt Kay,
I can't tell you how much happier I am since Donna insisted on living the DWC lifestyle on a 24/7 basis. Before she only spanked me on occasion, but it was not regular, and I knew I could get out of a spanking if I really tried. In other words it was a selfish game on my part. Well, it is no longer a game, and I am so much a better person for it. I don't drink nearly as much as I once did. I don't backtalk her or dare disobey her.
Even though I work 40 hours a week and Donna doesn't work, I am expected to help with the housework. I do all the ironing every week and any other chore that she tells me to do. I don't cuss at all anymore, especially within earshot of her. But most of all I know my place in the relationship and understand Donna's innate superiority as the woman. I also know how much more in love I am with her - a deeper, fuller love.
As far as my spankings are concerned, they have all been virtually the same, and when I think about it - that really is one of the most special parts of our relationship. There are no "play" spankings. All spankings result from one of the following transgressions on my part: 1) disobedience, 2) showing disrespect, 3) misbehavior on my part, or 4) cussing of any kind.
For all spankings, I must remove all of my clothing as she feels it helps enhance her power over me and puts me in a more contrite mood. She likes the idea of the woman being fully clothed while having a contrite, naked man standing in front of her. All my spankings are OTK because again, that involves complete subjugation of me and what is left of my male ego at that moment. For all my spankings, Donna uses a wooden hairbrush, which she keeps out in the open as a constant reminder.
Before every spanking I must also admit to my wrongdoing, and do so in a very explicit manner, or I know that the spanking will be harder and longer. In addition, she scolds me unmercifully during each spanking. Lastly, she only spanks me when she feels that I have committed a serious enough offense, so needless to say, every single one of my spankings end with me crying. And I usually have a black and blue rear end for at least a couple of days.
Bill