Dear Aunt Kay,
I would like very much to tell other people about our lifestyle. My wife and I have been into spanking for 12 yrs. now. She has 9 implements she uses on me when called for.
We have looked at spanking contracts but decided not to do that as a contract is only as good as your word. My wife believes in the DWC lifestyle but is not as restrictive as some wives are. I have a few rules which are easy to follow; always respect her and her friends, help around the house, vacuum, I clear the table, I make the bed each morning, I can disagree with her but she has the last word.
My punishment spankings are far and few between. Once a week I get what she calls a maintenance spanking, where I feel all her spanking items, but not too hard. She believes I need these to remind me what I'm in for if I don't behave.
We have a spanking bench, (and old one person piano bench) that is sometimes used, or I stand and bend over with my hands on my knees, or she will bend me over the end of the bed, or lay me on the bed with a rolled up blanket under my hips to bring my bottom up higher. She does not use OTK, she feels she cannot get a good swing when I'm OTK. When she does punish me she leaves me a crying mess and a very sore bottom. The maintenance is bad enough, believe me.
Dick