Hi Aunt Kay.
My name is Jeanne and I just found your web site as of last night and wanted to say that it's great!
I have a boyfriend that I have been dating now for about 5 years and about two years ago I brought domestic discipline into the relationship mostly of my own choosing and very little on his end of things. While on your site I noticed that you even had a very short little word about using a slipper for spankings.
That is my preferred item to use. Many may not know this but a good slipper or in this case an old sneaker can be a very powerful tool for disciplining, as my boyfriend will attest to.
I have a strap that so far in 2 years has only been used maybe 3 times whereas the slipper does such a great job on my boyfriend all the time.
I also find that there are many good types of shoes out there for just this. One is the Ked's sneakers and when once well-worn and aged with time, like a fine wine that just gets better with age.
In my case I have small feet, so I have bought him a pair and while at first there was a little protest to him wearing what he calls 'girls shoes', he has now gotten very use to wearing them so much so that many times he has forgotten he has them on and went out shopping and about the city.
The reason I have him wear a pair and break them in is so that he may get his spankings with his own shoe which is bigger than mine by far and therefore more of his bottom gets to feel the teaching effects it gives.
Jeanne