Dear Kay,
I am an attractive, masculine, well-educated male in my late forties. I am married to a very attractive and mature woman who is a few years older than myself. My wife believes very deeply in the value and need of corporal punishment within our marriage and, as such, I have consistently experience spankings from her. Although I most always find these spankings to be very difficult and very painful to receive, I am also deeply grateful for them. I have no doubt that these spankings have made me a better person. They have helped me to grow and to become much more aware of my own faults and shortcomings, of which I have many.
Like yourself, my wife believes in bare bottomed spankings and everything that I am wearing comes off prior to punishment. I am then placed over her lap and a thick wooden hair brush is used. These spankings hurt a great deal. This is the hardest part for me, the amount of pain involved. My wife believes in strict, prolonged and extremely painful spankings. I have cried more than once during discipline, something which I do not easily do. Finally, I have often wished there was some other easier way for me to be made aware of my faults and to grow as a person. But, when I am totally honest with myself, I know that there is no "easier way" and that spankings are a necessary and essential part of our marriage.
Thanks again for your wonderful web site. It helps to know that other males are also experiencing punishment within their marriages. Please feel free to publish this if you like.
Yours,
Mark