Dear Aunt Kay,
I am writing to let you know about my latest experience.
For weeks I have been corresponding with a couple, Fred and Carrie, who are members of the DWC. After several correspondences back and forth with Carrie, I drove to meet with them at their home. We had a good discussion about DWC, especially about how best to entice my very vanilla wife to try the DWC lifestyle. They gave me several articles to read.
I had previously E-mailed my initial confession, so Carrie gave me my first adult experience of a disciplinary spanking, DWC style. The stinging of the spanking was hard to bear, but the most lasting reminders came from her paddle with holes and her cane, which I could feel most of the week. The spanking gave me some release, and was effective in motivating me change my habits of tardiness and procrastination. (Of course, I still have a long way to go.)
However, I was most impressed by the warmth of the hugs and gentle touching paired with the spanking and scolding: I felt cherished and chastised at the same time, a very non-sexual, almost childlike response. I also felt forgiven and motivated by being held accountable to a woman I respect and want to please, and more determined than ever to pursue the DWC lifestyle with my wife.
I feel that I have been introduced to some true kindred spirits. Thank you again for keeping this website going, Aunt Kay. I am pleased with the smoothness and speed with which the site now operates.
Harry