Dear Aunt Kay,
I must thank you again. If I had not found your page, then we would be further into our "rut". The idea of explaining to Linnea what I wanted and deserved, was scary. Both of us came from families where we did not discuss much of anything let alone...spanking desires. In addition to getting spanked and whipped with the willow branch, Linnea has used the crop and an old thick belt (from an Amish saddle maker in Ohio, my native State).
I used to think I was tough-but after about 4 or 5 spanks or whips I am yelling and feeling the pain, then the remaining spanks leave me feeling like I do not want more-just wanting the punishment to be over. Funny but sooner or later I -Do- want more! Linnea says that she is going to figure a way to let me have some discipline out in the garage while the kids are at home. I think soon I will be soundproofing this, and I am sure that she plans on increasing the pay-load(pain load) of the sessions...any milder sessions we have had have proven to wear off-in an attitude way-soon afterwards, except for the couple of slightly more severe sessions.
Linnea is as shy and quiet as can be but has taken a liking to the role of Fem-Dom, this in turn has transposed over into our sex play, she becoming quite sexy and not at all bashful or prudent in exploring ways to..do many of the things that before your page and DWC Club were not possible.
Before, I was planning to possibly go through with my wayward intention of playing around (finding someone who would spank me) . I never had before but I figured...what the heck? But, having my own matriarchal wonder who is not afraid to put me over her knee leaves me feeling loved and willing to be devoted to my sexy dominant lady. Do all men really want this? If they don't I think they are missing the whole point of marriage and the true role of women.
We both will want to post to the Sanctuary-soon.
Hank (Linneas devoted husband from central Texas)