Thanks for a great site, Aunt Kay!
When my boyfriend (now fiancé) told me he was "into being spanked," I was open to trying out this new kind of play, but unsure how the emotional side of it would work. How could I be the one in control if I was totally new to it? How could I avoid being topped from the bottom?
The DWC site gives me great concrete ideas, and even more important, helps me cultivate the loving but strict attitude that will keep my dear, naughty boy in line in our coming life together. I click the sponsor links each time I visit (most are actually worth looking at in their own right), and really enjoy the letters and stories.
Just to show that, as my grandpa used to say- converts make the best Catholics, guess which one of us led the way into the leather shop in the Village where we acquired a big, black paddle for special occasions? I've also been known to pull hairbrushes and other implements out of my purse at unexpected moments, to remind him that a spanking is never far away. Our relationship, always strong, now has a whole new dimension to explore, and I'm enjoying my job of being in charge whenever I want.
Jill